We are a “no dog under the table” kind of family. He’s welcome to scavenge for crumbs once we’re finished but begging or nosing us while eating isn’t our thing. To solidify our stance, we keep a spray bottle filled with water on the edge of the dining table to spray the dog if he crosses the boundary line.

            Our past dogs learned the rules of the dining area and the kitchen quickly. They recognized the line and didn’t pass unless given permission, but this dog, he’s hardheaded. It doesn’t matter how many times he’s caught, the temptation of food lures him every time. His desire for scraps blocks his ability to think rationally and he gives into to his impulses, resulting in being sprayed.

            His cravings got the best of him this week and he crossed a huge line—he snuck into a dining chair and jumped onto the table after we finished eating. My oldest caught him in the act and the dog took off running once he was spotted.

Guilt does that. Before Carter ever reprimanded him, the dog knew he was in trouble. And just like the dog, we do the same thing. Sometimes we can’t help ourselves. We know a situation, action, or even a person is off limits, and we go for it anyway. The rebellion is so great, the desire for forbidden fruit so big, we can’t stop ourselves. And when we get caught in the act, the guilt and shame cloud everything, causing us to run.

What is it about boundaries? Rules? Why do we struggle with staying in the lines? Honestly, I think it’s a problem of the heart.

If you’re struggling to stay off the table even though you know better, ask yourself why? What is your motive? What need isn’t being met that you are trying to fill?

When we sneak on the table, we do it on purpose. Examine yourself this week. Do you have rebellion in your heart? Why? How is it clouding your vision? Don’t get caught on the table. Let’s catch it before doing something that causes regret.